Betlsclan Always and Forever

Oh where to start this post. I will try not to hurt feelings! So much has happened in the last few weeks!! Well let’s start off with a BIG thank you, so much for the support of my friends and family. I have had some trials and I think I am going to make it through them. My dad is doing well. He has started his treatments and they have put a permanent IV in his arm. He is amazing!! My poor mom has been missing out on the kid’s cause of wrestling which is now done so she will get the kids on Saturdays again. I am so glad that she loves to spend time with them!! Which brings me to Wrestling Isaiah has done so well to stick with this sport. I am so proud of him. We went to state on Saturday and he took 5th. His school took 2nd as a whole. But he had some hard matches and lost the last 2 and had a rough time with it! (He had Poppa, Nana, Justin, and Billie come support him. This is where the feelings come in.) Isaiah just cuddled with Kim when he lost and Kim is such an amazing man and held him and comforted him!! Kim kept worrying about Justin’s feelings. But Kim is There DAD!! You can’t expect anything more when they spend all but 5 weeks a year with him!! Isaiah loves Justin and knows he is his dad but he feels Kim is as well! Now on to MichAnn thank you to those of you who talked many times and cared many times for us though this!!! Well while she was in the detention center for youth they made her meet with a counselor and I have decided the counselors are idiots!!!!! This counselor was discussing with our daughter how Kim is her stepfather and that she needed to refer to him as that and that we needed to let her have contact with her real dad and she was like well to me Kim is my real dad. And this stupid counselor was all no he isn’t and you need to deal with that. I was so ticked!!! I told the counselor she tried to contact her father and that all he said to her was that he didn’t want her to refer to him as her dad and if she insisted on him being part of her family that she could say he was her uncle or cousin or something!! To an 8 year old. (Needless to say my ex-in-laws are not able to see her anymore since they are the ones that made her call.) I had to visit with the counselor for about 30 min before they brought MichAnn in and let me just tell you that by the time I left I was so P-Oed that I couldn’t even talk!!! So guess it was half good and half bad to send her to jail. She knows Kim is her dad and the only one she will ever know. Kim I know you hate country music but the song that is first on our playlist just explains our family totally!! Know your kids all love you and thank you for being such an AMAZING DAD not a FATHER to them!!!!! Its not the blood that counts it’s the heart!! P S I know some of you want to see the pictures of the truck with the new paint job but we are waiting till Kim gets the lift kit and all the details on to take the pictures! I will post them when he is done!! Love you all!!